Helping Lonely Hearts via e-Mail
There are millions of people looking for their true love on the Internet. The challenge is that many feel intensely frustrated with the process. These love sick people are meeting all kinds of wrong people, or even worse, they’re not meeting anyone at all. That’s why many of them are turning to Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.
Chaszey says: “Most people don’t realize that what they truly want in a partner contradicts who they are themselves at the core. They are one thing and desire another.” She adds: “The beginning of successful Online dating starts with a profile that is unique because it projects the strength of who you are, because it shows your most authentic Self and because you are honestly communicating who you are really looking for in a partner.”
In order to create a successful profile, start with these three tips:
1. The right screen name Most people tend to forget that screen names communicate novels. Screen names like “ServeMeRight,” “Looking2Please69,” “WorshipGoddess” may communicate things to people that you had not intended. Try not to communicate too much with your screen name and definitely don’t leave room for guess work when choosing your screen name.
2. Choosing photos that work “People don’t realize that the main headshot is what many people base their decision on and based on this one picture some may never even look at the profile, so your main photo is the most important one,” says Chaszey. It’s amazing to see how many people put photos up wearing their sunglasses and baseball cap, covering just about anything important. This will result in many people never even opening up their profile. Your main photo should show your eyes and your face and you should not wear a hat, even if you’re bald. Photos that produce result show your eyes and face and you look into the camera. Photos should show you in a variety of settings, headshot, half body shot and full body shot. This is not the time to hide what you look like, this is the time to be honest.
3. Your profile Give an accurate and true picture when describing yourself. People don’t realize that online dating is not a writing contest and no awards are given anywhere to anyone. This is an attempt of the heart to finding that true love that you so deserve. Yet people try to do so by falsefying their profiles, making themselves sound like they want to be, rather than who they truly are. They don’t realize that by giving a false picture of themselves, no matter how great it sounds, never allows for that true love to come into their space. It’s a contradiction and it can only go one way: the wrong way. Instead, be honest, sincere, ethical and authentic. Don’t worry about what others think of you, it’s none of your business. Worry about accurately describing yourself so you can attract that one special person.
4. Clearly describe the partner you want to attract Everyone wants a “good woman” or a “great guy” but this doesn’t mean that your profile needs to sound like you’re looking for a Stepford wife or Prince Charming. Too many adjectives can result in people tuning out about what you’re really looking for. Perhaps you may want to try to describe how this person makes you feel or what you as a couple would do together. Write this part as if you’re talking to her or him directly.
Chaszey Sandhriel is the Nation’s number 1 Online Dating Coach and helps Daters create outstanding results. Visit www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call 415.419.7952 to get in touch with her.
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